* What am I getting out of this relationship?
* How is this bringing joy to my life?
* How am I growing and becoming a better person
as a result of this relationship?
* Do I feel safe? Respected? Loved?
* Do we share attraction and chemistry?
* Are my needs being met (emotional, physical,
mental, spiritual)?
* Is he faithful?
* Do I feel happy and fulfilled more than I feel
unhappy or frustrated?
* Does this relationship allow me to be true to
myself... my values, beliefs, spirit, etc?
* Do we have similar life goals and dreams?
* If my best friend were in this relationship, what
would I tell HER to do?
* If this relationship were to end, would I truly be sad
about losing him, or sad that he's not the person I
wanted him to be?
The reality is, no matter how hard you try, YOU CAN'T HAVE
A DRAMA-FREE RELATIONSHIP IF YOU'RE WITH THE WRONG MAN.
Take a leap of faith and let a guy go if he doesn't meet your
needs. As scary as it can be out there in the world of dating,
I promise you that someone will come into your life who is
worthy and can love you the way you deserve to be loved (but
he can't find you if you're with Mr. Wrong!).
